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Hey girls. I need to know if I'm just being an idiot rushing into this living together thing. How long do most couples even last before either getting married or breaking up? I don't want to be naive and assume we'll be that perfect exception. Can anyone share the experience?????
Living in is an important step before you decide to marry. Its the litmus test , irrespective of your relationship failing or passing this test one thing is for sure you ll definitely find out if its worth it or not and you can make informed decisions for your future .. so go for it id say!
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I am in a relationship with a guy for 3 years and we are thinking of taking a step further .But one of my friends suggested that we should first live together for sometime before taking any big step. This also led us to think that whether we should do a live in relationship for sometime or not. What do you think about this? Is it smart to live together before marriage?
Since it’s something your friend suggest, it will be better you first figure out pros and cons of living together with your partner, think of financial independence and how comfortable,safe and compatible you feel with your partner
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My cousin fell in love with someone few months ago. First time they met in a family function, where sparks flew over shared interests and mutual laughter. As their bond grew stronger, they are somewhere wanting to take next step of moving in together. But there are so many doubts regarding this. How do you know when you're ready to live together?
According to me, financial independence of both partners, consent and mutual agreement on common boundaries,and a common vision that where you see your relationship going can help to decide if you are ready to move in or not
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Is it feasible for relationships with a distribution of effort like 70/30 to be long-lasting? I've been with my partner for nearly two years, and while our relationship is generally stable and peaceful, the division of effort has leaned more towards 70/30 rather than the ideal 50/50. Lately, I've noticed that maintaining this dynamic is draining me more than usual, especially considering the level of attention and affection I receive isn't as much as I desire. Should I discuss this imbalance with my partner and aim for a more equal distribution of effort, or is it better to accept things as they are?
You should definitely discuss the imbalance with your partner because it will be very exhausting for you, try to get in middle ground with him, collaboratively both of you should put in equal efforts
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hello, my boyfriend says we should try live in. we have been together for 3 years now. Do couples last longer if they live together before marriage? Because I am not ready but if it's good for our relationship....
If you are not ready please dont rush to it, take your time, its not a hard fast rule that relationship lasts longer with live in rather it can also be vice versa and it can also lead to breakups, what is needed is mutual work and willingness to make it work but if you are not ready it will make things difficult for you and your partner
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Heya everyone This is my first time using the app.Kindly ignore any mistakes. I am kind of chubby or you can say overweight 24 years old girl.Initially I didn't have any insecurities.But since a year or two when I moved to Delhi.I constantly try to fit in among people.But it feels like I'm losing a part of me.🥲
hey Anonymous. one needs to be physically fit, not to please anyone but for urself. Being overweight should not be the reason for your insecurities . You need to accept yourself first only then others will accept you if you feel you are loosing urself trying to fit in... ask yourself what is it that you are doing that's creating discomfort within you ... identify and work on it.. good luck 👍
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I want to loose weight quickly
Hi, I understand we expect a certain body type but taking care of our health is more important than losing weight quickly. Don't push yourself a lot in the process of losing weight.
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I m facing mental torture from mother in law despite all efforts I'm not able to co up with 24/7 disrespectful behavior from her now I have twin kids they also facing n seeing such things everyday what should I do?
Hey! So sorry to hear about this..what you can do please note down the points where your mother in law gets agitated or scream on you and try to find out the pattern of her behaviour. Then you can modify your actions and reactions according to that so that she will also try to understand that you are making efforts to understand her as well. Hope this works for you..and of you want more suggestions you can join live sessions.
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How to be calm and have patience if someone irritates you
Hello, I can understand that there are times when you feel so irritated with the people around you, and it does feel very difficult to deal with the situation. Always remember that you have to protect your own peace, and that's the only thing that matters. So try to move away from such situations in any way possible.
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Loneliness creeps in despite being surrounded by people. How can I foster genuine connections and overcome feelings of loneliness or isolation? @MindsetbyMeenal
Hey, why feel lonely when you have a excellent company of yourself! What is it that's really bothering you? time to introspect. First and foremost connect with yourself, accept yourself. Be kind to yourself and stop being judgemental and critical to small mistakes you make. Identify small things that make you happy, walks, listening to music or a cold shower?? Do that more often. Reach out to some one who needs help, when you help someone you will experience peace within . Express gratitude for all that you have been blessed with.... TC
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my husband is a drug addict, he drinks aLot, use to take brown sugar also. due` to this there are a lot of problems. i have a 3 year old child. nowadays we are fighting, he is always drunk. what should I do
hlw everyone, i have talked to my husband and in laws also. my father in law knows everything but he never interfere between us. last week was very disturbing for me. as i asked divorce from my husband. he was heartbroken and asked for a chance. this time he has consulted a psychiatrist and tdke medicine also. now i am just praying everything be good.
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my husband cheated on me with my own sister. now he is asking me to sign a divorce mutually and doesn't wanna give me any dues only promising to child care as my son is disable. we are still under the same roof and he is planning to move out.But every day is a new fight as he is constantly talking shit about me verbally abusing me and my son. it's a lot of verbal violence at home whenever he is at home. I am really worried about my son as he is physically disabled and has autism too plus he is getting seizures due to all the stress. no one's family is getting involved as it was a love marriage. I am really lost and no mental strength left.
Try to restart your carrier side by side...don't try to hold him as he is already gone.focus on your self and your child future.Leave him with some decent amount and your mental health is most important then only you can take care of your child....be strong and independent
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Angel message: Imagine how difficult it is for you to change. Your parents have asked you to do things and you have conveniently ignored them.. Your partner or sibling is supporting you to change and bring consistency in your life but you choose to give up everytime.. Your best friend has given you the same advice a 1000 times but you don't seem to listen.. How difficult it is to change and give yourself a new life..expecting others to change is also unreasonable. It is equally difficult for the other person to change , so stop complaining. First work on yourself, then point a finger at the others. #angelmessage #message #divineguidance
Completely agree
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if there is someone elder, who can listen me plz help me. i am going through the worst phase of my life. plz help
i don't know what should I do in my situation. just feeling a burden on everyone.
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Apko ptha.... whenever Im feeling depressed or anything is not good in my day to day routine I just lovento go for shopping and buy everything and like in mall .. is't the best healing for me to get over from a bad mood or a tiff ,any kind of thing happening in my family which is making me sad so shopping is the best way to appreciate yourself to keep a smile on your face ,in front of everyone and it feels so relax when you unbox the things you shop today and I am full now and tell me what kind of things you do when you are sad ???
Hello! I am glad that you shared your experience here. It's a good activity to go for shopping whenever you feel sad it is working for you as a coping but do you think it will work for long?or do you want to get a better understanding of your emotions and problems so that you can find other budget friendly solutions.
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Celebrating Spring. Celebrating Blessings. Celebrating Life. Celebrating a small journey in a new role with everyone of you . #lifecoachrashmisaha #mentalhealth #selflove #couplecounseling #success
Wow that's so magnetic! Stay blessed.
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Learn from it. #motivationalquotes #payattention #Lifelessons
Very good
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Are you really working on your unresolved issues? Or just following the trend? Social media has been powerful in shedding light on mental health but it is now seeing "trendy" to lead a certain lifestyle that supposedly portrays taking care of your mental health. We want to tell you that healing is not always aesthetic. It cannot always be boxed into red-flags and the cure to it all is not self-love. #warmgoodmorningcoto #cityambassador #letstalkaboutmentalhealth #mentalhealth #cotocreator #personalitydevelopment
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Incorporate daily journaling
Relaxed fulfilled happy..at this moment ❤️🙏🥰😇😇
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